"I'm new to this site and stumbled across it when my girlfriend and I broke up five weeks ago. Just reading some of your posts has been really helpful in coping with my loss and it's comforting to know that so many of you out there are going through the same pain that I'm experiencing." ~DaveC

"Welcome to all that are new to this forum. You may not realize it yet, but by finding this site, you are already on your way to recovery." ~a member

"We all understand the pain and suffering that you are going through. We have all been there or we wouldn't be here. Everyone that is here is at a different stage of healing. Some are just beginning the long journey, and some have completely recovered and are here to offer support and guidance, and all that are somewhere in between." ~a member

"What you will find from this site: everyone here has been or is in your shoes, everyone is trying to help, offer encouragement, offer suggestions, tell of their experiences to help guide others from making the same mistakes, provide a shoulder to cry on." ~a member

"I am happy that I found this site yesterday. I know that I will visit it often as I need a place like this to go. I have learned so much from it already. Thanks for being here." ~a member

"This site can be a lifeline in a time of need. You will find people here that are in different stages of healing. we are all here for you, you need this board!" ~a member

"I found this site 3 months ago, it has been a god send." ~a member

"I was surfing the net in search of the answers that I was not able to get from him. That was the day that I joined this community. A true God send! I read and re-read the webBooks, I posted asking for advice, I received advice which I now understand why was the best possible advice that I could have received." ~Rising Up "There is such value in reading the stories that others post here." ~a member

"This site is a wonderful place and I appreciate you being there. I often may only have a couple of minutes to visit but I look to this group as a safe place to retreat and to say "I am scared", "I am sad", "I am confused", "I am feeling bad today", "I need a hug", or to tell you when something goes well, too. I think of it when I am feeling bad and cannot wait to stop in. I am glad that I found you here. I have no one else to turn to. This is exactly the place that I needed to find. Thank you!" ~a member

"Tomorrow I will be alone. I hope that I can stay busy and not get depressed over her. I feel ok though because I can come here and post and/or read some from the library of webBooks. It really is good to know that you all are here - that I have a place to go. Before finding this site, I had no place to go and no one to talk to. I appreciate finding this site. I appreciate your posts and support. Thanks for caring." ~a member

"I am so happy to have found this place to come and share, talk, read, and basically not feel so alone. You guys have been wonderful to talk to and I appreciate all of you being there. Your words and friendship mean so much to me. I have been very busy this week at work and have not been able to get here until now, but I have thought of this site, and this board and how good it feels to be here and to talk to you. Before finding this site, the loneliness and fear, and the feeling, at times, that I had no place to turn was dreadful." ~Trezures

"This place has been wonderful, there were times where I really felt like you guys really knew me, and it was such a wonderful experience to know that I wasn't alone. I had some rough times, but the advice, and kind words I received greatly helped." ~Isabella

"This site has been a godsend to me and has helped me through a very difficult period. I have learned so much from all of you. I have especially learned how many good, kind, caring people are out there - people who will offer so much support and friendship to complete strangers." ~Free At Last

"I found this site yesterday and have already gained so much from reading some of the information and posts. I was sure that somewhere on the internet there had to be a place to come when you needed to talk (not pickup people) and receive constructive comments from people who may have been through similar situations. This seems to be the place. " ~Linnie

"I'm new to this site, having stumbled upon it yesterday after stumbling upon Tigress Luv's web book while looking for internet material on relationship breakups. Like several other people have mentioned, I'm very impressed and appreciative of everyone on here, and the chance to express heartfelt feelings without being ridiculed or judged. Ordinarily, I keep most things to myself, but it really does help to get feedback from others who are going -- or who have gone -- through the same thing. In fact, I was taken back as I read the posts here how many other people are suffering through emotional upheavals because of broken relationships."
- Dave

Dear Tigress Thank you for setting this wonderful community I must say I am amazed and have learnt so much in regards to letting go of the past and living now. The people here are fantastic and reading others stories and the similarities are freaky but the outcomes seem the same, the advise members give are great and to have an input is great too, I have had a difficult time myself and have managed to get through. I so wished I knew about this site before as the pain of getting through would have been shared and so less hurtful.

Thank you again, your books have been inspirational and helped me enormously, made me think of the situation I have let myself get into and how to get out and let go.

I am on the site and helping others where I can. regards Znino

Has Tigress never thought of publishing it in hard copy? I am also an author in the (deleted to protect privacy) world, of a best selling book, which the publishers have made a mint out of, and me, bugger all! So I am currently writing my second book and will self publish this time, probably in (deleted to protect privacy), as amazon and other distributors will take it, no question.

Tigress's book 'How to Stop Your Breakup', would I am certain, be a huge bestseller if sold through booksellers. It is a book that would help many thousands, survive breakup, even if they didn't get their partner back, it sure as hell prepares you to move on. It was the title that attracted me, in my desperation to try to get my partner back. There must be thousands in the same situation, and maybe that relationship was never, is never, going to be right for them.

By just giving the reader the hope that they might be able to retrieve the relationship, gets him or her feeling more positive from the first chapter! But then, reading on, it also alerts the reader to some facts that put the relationship into perspective, maybe not always the perspective that we want to hear, but it forces the reader, in a gentle, but no nonsense way, to face up to facts that I for one, had been trying to bury. This has prepared me to accept that I may never get the relationship back, but would I really have wanted it, in the way it was? Unless it changed drastically, no, I wouldn't, and if it doesn't happen, despite the fact I still love my ex, it has prepared me to move on and realise that I was on my own before, and I can do it again.

I urge Tigress to publish this book for the masses- it is SO invaluable. I have read a stack of 'self help' books in the last few weeks, and nothing has helped me like 'How to Stop Your Break-up'.

All the best,

Heather"

HERE'S WHAT SOME OF OUR
MEMBERS SAY ABOUT OUR COMMUNITY!

Tigress. You and your ebooks have helped me more than you can ever know. I would be lost without this site.

This place is to be a site for support and love

This place has help me more than you will ever know!!!!

So many times what I was able to say here I would have kept inside!!!!

The advice is excellent..........and i think that it is so neat that if you are having a bad night and can't sleep you can just about be assured that there will be someone...somewhere that can be there for you.

I find it so amazing that even through the keys of the board you can feel the pain and the love and support.

I seriously do not know where i would be had I not been lead to this community!!!

I feel like we are family!!!

So thank you Tig for birthing this place ...you have allowed change to come in so many lives.

You will have available in this community the support and strength that you need to remove yourself from this unhealthy "dance". There is a huge amount of wisdom here. Make yourself available to it, come here when you are sad, lonely or angry and I promise you will find what you need. We welcome you here.

You will get lots of varying responses which really helps because you can look at things from many perspectives.

Your pain is uniquely yours and everyone else's pain is their own. You're entitled to your feelings whatever they may be. Share away...that's what our community is for.

We are here for each other and it's a safe place to vent all the things that we feel and have done (even the things that we are not so proud of – I know I have).

Everyone on these boards have been a massive help to me and many others.

You ask for love and look what you got a whole community that just "loves you to pieces".

I am confident that the healthiness of this community depends on people's confidence in expressing their feelings about life, about the own situations and about each others. No one is here to be some gate-keeper to keep positive emotions in and negative emotions out, and if it were so it would be something weirder than a cult.

I'm glad there's the courage shared here between many of us to say how the view looks from where each of us is stood: long may it continue.

Thank you for your words of encouragement and comfort...they mean so much.

Strange this is ...but as I finished reading the post from Coach I began to cry...haven't all day......as the tears flowed it was as if I could feel you circle around me... strange.. but it was such a feeling of safety and comfort. Thank you again my dear friends for your time and strength...I will get through this..I will and I will be better for it.

Wishing you each the best of life!!

I considered it a blessing to be in a community of such amazing people.

This place is filled with such wisdom, care and love. We may not always agree but we don't have to...we are all so different and each bring something different to the table....what a blessing!!!!! Many of you do not know how uplifting it is to watch you grow and work thru your pain and what beauty has come from it. I pray that each of you find the love of your life and the joy of life in the world we are so privileged to live in. Again thank you all for your support.

This absolutely is a safe place for those of you who really need it. I know that I certainly did at one point and everyone here was fantastic. It's a beautiful community with loads to offer anyone at ANY stage of healing.

Hello tigress, i am honored to receive a reply from the GURU of RELATIONSHIPS, You and your site has been a God Send to me!

When I get on this site and feel the love and warmth and concern that you and all the others impart, I become overwhelmed and spend half of my time in tears because of the goodness I feel coming from all of you. I almost cannot believe it, it moves me..It has restored a lot of my faith in humanity, I now know that there are people who love and feel compassion and concern for another...I have not felt that in a long time, all of you ARE doing the work of GOD.

Thank you for loving me!

You've found a very compassionate and amazing community here and we learn from each other and offer each other tremendous support. We do have our dysfunctional moments, but they are few and far between...but by and large we are really a family and some of us have even met (and stay in touch off the boards) in real life. There's always something going on here, so keep your eyes peeled on ALL the forums and maybe something will be happening in your area!

This is a great place to start your journey and we'll stay in step with you as you go through it.

You are so right about this compassionate and amazing community...All of you have helped me tremendously...The knowledge and wisdom shared in this community has become a foundation that I will plant my feet in and hang on

Hi and WELCOME!! You've found a great place to pour out your heart, and to learn. I know you're hurting right now, but I promise...if you stick with us...it will get better.

Hi and Welcome to Lifted Hearts....you are not here by accident! This is a loving and giving safe place for you to explore who you are!

Again,...sorry for the reason that brought you here, but so glad you are here. A heart break brought me here and this place gave me the tools I needed to make changes in my life. I will never regret that love and break-up because of what it taught me about me and pointed me to Lifted Hearts.

You are in the right place, and you can post and spill your guts every day and the GREAT people on this board will support you every step of the way !

I echo what people have said. This site is a great place to vent, and get the advice and support that you need while you are determining what direction you are going in.

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• What to Do When They Lose Their Attraction to You
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• Coming Soon! - Fifty Reasons WHY He Dumped YOU!
• The Big webBook of Breakup Poems: One - The first part of our breakup poems.
• The Big webBook of Breakup Poems: Two - The second part of our sad love poems.
• Can You Remain Friends With the Ex? Should You..? - A mini webBooklet on friendship after splitsville.
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• Breakup Quotes - A collection of quotes about sad love.
• Our AWESOME Support Community Message Boards  - Our compassionate support forums where our members have made thousands of posts on such boards as:
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  • Sad Love Poems: Post your favorite poems here, or add your own poetry and verse.
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Whether my relationship repairs or not, I am already feeling better having read the book. If I only downloaded and read this one book, I would feel it is worth the price of the gold membership. I hope to find time to join in on some of the forums, but am a very busy professional in the (note: industry purposely removed to ensure privacy) world, at the top of my profession, maybe, internationally known, but at the bottom of the heap when it comes to successful relationships.

Thank you Tigress, for your wisdom, humour, and for inspiring hope. I will recommend this site to any friends in future, who suffer the same problems in relationships."